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When nothing is certain, anything is possible!

  • Writer: Jonathan S. Kpakima
    Jonathan S. Kpakima
  • Dec 5, 2020
  • 2 min read
If you want to make better decisions in life; have goal(s).
If you don't want to be easily carried away; have goal(s).
If you do not want to be making statements like, Had I know, I wish I had given a second thought; have goals.
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Irrespective of the fact that natural phenomena and Devine influences can alter our goals, goals however, can impact us greatly even when they may not be achieved.

When we set goals; we shape our plans, we modify our interests, we shape our activities and most importantly, the way we use our time. They become like certainties; things we are conscious about, aim at achieving and not easily altered.

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* Those certainties help us make better decisions in life because if for example, we have a goal of becoming a business tycoon and we are focused on achieving it, it would take us days, weeks, or even month to ponder on a decision that would have to divert our attention from that goal. We cannot easily accept an offer without thinking about its pros and cons to see if they outweigh our present goal. In the end, any decision we make outside of our present goal will either worth it or be our sole responsibility because it must have been a well thought decision.


* Goals help us not to be easily carried away because when you have a task to achieve and you are focused and determined to achieve it; you won't be always available for things that won't add to you. Your time and availability for 'unworthy' things reduce greatly.


* Goals prevent us from making statements like; had I know, how I wish I had given a second thought.

When you want to make a decision outside of your present goal; it gives you the opportunity to ponder (as in point 1) on the decision which has to alter your present goal. As your second choice becomes a well thought decision; you will have few reasons to say had I know in the end, or I wish I had given a second thought. You would probably be in place to bear any brunt that might befall you and feel good if you succeed.


People do documentation for their businesses, romantic relationships (marriage), etc. to have certainties. With that certainty, one partner would only wake up one morning and asked for a divorce or separation after given a careful consideration of their decision, and the certainty will also protect the other partner in either outcome. In the absence of a marriage certificate or marriage laws, anything is possible.

If you do not have career goal, any career path could possibly attract you.

If you do not have relationship goal, any attraction could easily attracts you.

When nothing is certain, anything is possible.

Do not be one who is always available for anything at any time, but one who creates room for something at some point because it's worthwhile.
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