8 Signs she is there to stay, she isn't into you for something else!

If you intend making her your queen, carefully watch out for these 8 signs before you make that decision.

There are several signs to determine if she is in your life to stay but these eight signs are all you needed!

1. Does she make or follow up on future goals for both of you!

Every girl has a lifetime goal whether big or small; meaningful or not. As a major sign that she is there to stay rather than being there for something; check to see if she has suggested any lifetime goal for both of you. If she has suggested one or two of such, check if she ever made a follow up on them. If she made a follow up, also check to see how did she opt to help you achieve them, and finally what sacrifices was she ready to make ( if any) just to achieve those goals. She can suggest and be ready to do 'anything' to achieve a lifetime relationship with you. When she does, don't misconstrue it to be ambitious or desperate, there is only one goal to that - to have you to herself.

2. Is she comfortable in getting to know and being around your family, friends and loved ones!

Cultures may be different on this, but most women who love a guy for a lifetime purpose will be the one to ask about your friends, family, and loved ones. She would be enthusiastic in getting to know them and being around them especially if they are approachable. She would take steps to get closer to them unknowingly to you so that she won't have to tell you how fitting she is for you but want it done by your friends, and family so that she won't appear to be pretending.

3. Her level of mutual plans with you will outweigh her personal plans.

When she is there to stay, you won't often hear her speak of 'my plans', 'what I want in life', 'what I want a guy to do for me'. Those phrases will be replaced with ones like: what is the future of this relationship? How are we going to add to our life and this relationship? How can I be the woman you want?...When she is there to stay, she doesn't see you as "a means to an end", she sees you as "an end in itself". In other words, she doesn't needs you to gain something else but having you means everything to her. She can focus on building you up more than her very self simply because if she makes you the man she wants, you in turn will give her all she wants in the long run because she needs you for a lifetime.

She wouldn't focus on personal security because as far as she is with you; in her opinion, she is secured. If she doesn't focus on up building herself personally, know that she needs you for a lifetime.

4. She won't take advice from people that would possibly be in opposition of her opinion about you.

When a woman is there for a lifetime journey with you rather than for a personal satisfaction, you will be her first and only advisor, not even her parent, except a parent that approves of her decision. Your approval is all she wants, she will only need friends for company not for sharing of secrets or advice.

5. She will find solutions to your problem rather than telling you your problems.

When she is there to stay, she will buy you a pair of socks for example, to let you know that the only pair of socks you have is worn out and needs to be replaced rather than telling you she doesn't like worn out socks on a man. She will help you identify and work on areas to build you up to the man she want rather than telling you what she doesn't like about you.

6. She won't prove to be industrious or loving only when you are angry but does so at every moment, most times when you are not even aware.

She won't ask a third party to help her apologise but do it all by herself because she is devoted to you and therefore, knows how to make you happy when you are sad. She wouldn't want a third party to know how she has 'reduced herself' in proving her love for you so she will do everything within her power at anytime to calm your anger.

7. She won't always question your love for her but rather asks you about how she can gain your love.

When a woman comes to stay, she takes on the responsibility of building the relationship. She doesn't see you to be the one to love her before she can accept you for life, she sees you as the one to be loved because she is in need of you and not you in need of her. When she really loves you, you become her priority, "she will forget where she left herself" just to make you happy.

8. When she is there to stay, she wouldn't be scared or afraid to be with you anywhere at anytime.

True love doesn't ask why, she will be ready to bear anything as long it means keeping you both together as in point 1, she won't bother about personal integrity, name, fame, image, all she would cared about is to have you to herself. She wouldn't want to blame herself for not doing what she was supposed to do to get you. In that light, she sees every needs of yours as a requirement to gain your heart for eternity.

Motivational

• To a woman who wants to stay with you, the 'us' is more important than the 'I' in everything she does.